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Anonymous said:please don't let anyone make fun of... that's what always happens and i really need help.
i'm in love with a character. i'm not going to say which one. but i love him, i'm in love with him, i have been for almost 3 years. i've tried to get over him, i can't. i've cried over him, i always miss him. i just need to know that he's out here somewhere and happy.
god, i sound so insane. i'm sorry that i'm so messed up. but this is all i have right now. i don't know what to do. i just need hope that maybe he'll be here one day...
I havent answered questions on here for ages but this was so interesting i felt the need to answer straight away. Sadly, no, your character is NOT real, he was created by someones imagination. He will not be there for you, he doesnt have feelings for you, he will never do anything for you, know you, talk to you or anyone else for that matter! Its so harsh of me to say but the truth is a horrible thing to face up to. I’m guessing you’ve had some problems with relationships, maybe trust issues that have caused you to love someone who can never hurt your feelings as he isnt real. Is this correct? Do you think there is any other reason why you have turned to love something that doesnt exist? Do you try to escape from reality by imagining a relationship with this character? You’ve come to me because you obviously know this isnt right and you’ve come to me for a solution or some advice. The only advice/solution i can offer you is to sit down and realise how wrong this is and how much of a waste it is. Youre putting time and effort and feelings into someone who isnt real and never will be real and will never reciprocate these feelings. This could effect future relationships and possibly the rest of your life. Once you have come to accept this fully, i think you should completely remove this character from your life, like you would if you broke up with someone. Take away everything that reminds you of this character, and store it in a loft or cellar or somewhere you wont see it, even throw it away if youre brave enough. Start again without this character in your life, build relationships with real attainable people. You need to start doing something about it though and you know you do. Soon it will become a complete obsession if it isnt already. Obsession isnt healthy, It can drive you mad! I know this sounds scary but i’m hoping it will give you the push you need to let go and start again. If you find this to be absolutely impossible, i STRONGLY suggest you see a therapist. You say its all you have right now. You dont have family/friends/education/work?? If your answer is no, is it because you’ve neglected these things to pursue your interest in this character? Please tell me more about yourself and your life. It sounds like its time to start rebuilding. I hope this isnt too harsh to read, i would like to help you. xoxo
Anonymous said:I would ask this on your personal blog but it doesn't let anons ask (I actually don't have a tumblr) but my question is, where is bag number 3 from?
m&s!!! xo
Anonymous said:how long do your extensions last? i have clip in ones and they always get so tangly no matter how much i condition them and they are real hair... does this happen to you? ugh especially when i am drunk its horrible :( lol
yeah my hair gets tangly occasionally but i find my extensions last longer if i dont use heat on them. i NEVER straighten my extensions and i never use curling tongs or blow dry them. i only use heated rollers and they are nowhere near as hot or damaging those. so try not to use heat on them really cos it makes the hair really dry and it eventually splits and starts tangling! xoxo
Anonymous said:Hello Alice! I have a very sweet boyfriend whose feelings mean a lot to me, but for awhile the excitement and spark has been gone from our relationship and I think it's time to move on. The thing is, I'm not sure he's ready to move on and I really don't want to hurt him or have ill feelings towards me. How can I end our relationship so we can still be friends?
Hey sorry i didnt answer this sooner, i have a feeling i know who this might be and you might have already gone ahead and done it! If not, you need to sit him down and explain all the reasons why you don’t want to be with him in the nicest way possible. So say you feel like its time to move on, it wasnt anything he did and you dont want to hurt his feelings. Whatever happens, do not insult him or be hurtful because that will cause him to have ill feelings towards you. Maybe try and make it a mutual split, ask him if he feels like the spark has gone too or if he feels he wants to move on. It could take a while but just be as understanding as possible and insist that you want to stay friends but you’ll back off for a while to make it easier. I hope it goes well xoxo
nobodytalksaboutthebreakup said:i'm thinking of going a more natural blonde and knowing that you were for a while i'd like to ask you if you know how i'd go about going a natural blonde from being bleach blonde? , i've tried before but its just gone grey/ platinum xx
hey, its difficult getting from bleach blonde to a natural shade, as you said, it goes grey or in my case, green! you will have to go for a warm shade of blonde like a honey or caramel colour to dye over the top as the only way you can counteract the cold grey tones is using a warm shade. then from there you can dye over the top of the warm shade with a more natural blonde and maybe add a few highlights for a more natural effect :) xoxo
Anonymous said:hi i'm decorating my room soon and i recently bought a wallpaper, its black with bright pink flowers and with like beige coloured leaves. i was wondering, how you would decorate the rest of the room. i know it's not exactly to your taste but i need help! xxx
hmm just pick out items that match the colours, so if the wallpaper is mainly black maybe pick out black furniture, have a beige carpet, and add pink accents like cushions, curtains, frames etc :) xoxo
Anonymous said:Alice my loooooooove! Please tell me where you got all those darling clothes from in that picture you posted?
shorts and trousers are from miss selfridge, top and skirt are from h&m! please ask me this on my personal tumblr from now on though. xo
Anonymous said:Miss Alice, would you ever consider posting up a picture of your dad and sister? I'm extremely curious as to what they look like! I would ask for your mom but you already posted one of her, haha.
this is more a question for my personal tumblr! so i will post one on there. i dont actually have any recent photos of them at the moment but i will dig some out and post them to my journal on my missalicekelly blog :) x
Anonymous said:(you smoke, right?) how old were you when you started smoking? and ium not being nosy btw haha jic you though that! xxx
i tried my first cigarette at 14 but i was never enthused about it or peer pressured into continuing with it. i first smoked weed when i was about 16/17 but began smoking both cigarettes/weed on a sort of regular basis at 18…i only smoke cigarettes socially or when drinking and i only have 2-3 joints a week xx
Anonymous said:Not so much a question as a statement, pertaining to your post on your personal blog about big boobs being ugly. I would never say that a flat chest was unattractive, in fact sometimes I may be guilty of wishing mine were smaller but on the whole...
38DD AND PROUD, big boobs are the shit!
exactly! i lost about 20 followers for that post, but i stand by it! everyone should be accepting of each other’s bodies and their own! its comments like ‘big boobs are ugly’ that cause eating disorders, depression, self harm and debt over plastic surgery! but anyway, big boobs make the world go round, they are the best ;) xoxo
